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What is Behavior?

Behavior is the way in which a person behaves in response to a particular situation or stimulus. It is their actions, reactions and the way a person functions in response to everyday environments and situations. Just the same, children’s behavior is a response to everything going on in their environment, family dynamics, school setting, social situations… They react to the actions of people surrounding them as in family, teachers, friends…

What Is Meant by Challenging Behaviors?

Challenging behavior is a term used to describe behavior that interferes with a child’s ability to learn and be engaged in social interactions.

Examples of challenging behavior may include:

Withdrawn Behaviors

Such as shyness, rocking, staring, anxiety, school phobia, social isolation or hand flapping.

Disruptive Behaviors

Such as being out-of-seat, calling out in class, tantrums, screaming or refusing to follow instructions.

Violent and/or Aggressive Behaviors

Such as head banging, kicking, biting, pinching, fighting, running away, smashing equipment.

Inappropriate Social Behaviors

Such as inappropriate conversations, stealing, being over-affectionate, inappropriate touching or masturbation.

What Causes Challenging Behaviors?

Challenging behaviors occurs when a child has not developed the social and emotional skills needed to behave socially. Often, when a child goes through a challenging behavior, it is a response to feeling anxious, angry, or overwhelmed. Which also is an indication that he/she is struggling with processing these feelings.

There are a number of other things that might affect your child’s ability to control their reactions, emotions or behaviors, including:

  • A change in family circumstances or routine
  • The need of social attention
  • Sensory input need
  • Emotional needs
  • Poor diet or feeling hungry

Functions of Behaviors

It is important to understand that all behaviors occur for a reason. All human behaviors serve four main functions. These four functions are:

Access to Tangibles

An individual engages in a behavior to get access to an item or activity.

Attention

An individual engages in a behavior to receive attention.

Escape

An individual engages in a behavior to end or avoid something they do not like.

Sensory

An individual engages in a behavior because it physically feels good or relieves something that feels bad.

Red Flags

Here are some social emotional and behavior red flags that should alert you:

  • Frequent tantrums that last more than 10 minutes
  • Excessive anger like, hitting, biting, hair pulling, scratching others…etc.
  • Difficulty in transition from one place to another
  • Difficulty in transition from one activity to another
  • Weak eye contact
  • Weak social interaction
  • Shows difficulty engaging in activities or playing with children his age
  • Avoiding friends or family and wanting to be alone all of the time
  • Impulsive behavior which impacts daily activities (ruling out ADHD diagnosis)
  • Showing distress when separating from you
  • Ongoing behavior problems at daycare, school, home or in the community
  • Separation anxiety intense symptoms that continue after the age of 4 and through the elementary school years
  • Difficulty completing tasks and following directions
  • Easily distracted and has difficulty concentrating or focusing on activities
  • Hyperactivity or constant movement beyond regular playing
  • Sudden outbursts or explosive emotional reactions

If you find that your child is showing any one or more of the above challenging behaviors, it is advised that you fill ONESTI’s behavior challenges checklist and speak to our behavior specialists to identify your child’s problem behaviors and determine the possible functions these behaviors serve.

To know more about how to deal with challenging behaviors using evidence-based strategies, read about ONESTI’s Brave To Behave program. Our behavior specialists will work on coaching the child’s caregivers, family, teachers, or anyone involved in the child’s daily life, and empower them with the best techniques to be applied throughout daily routines, everytime and everywhere, challenging behaviors occur.

  • Potty training: if you are having difficulty potty training your child, go to Poopee time daily routine to learn more.
  • Eating Issues: if your child refuses / avoids to eat different textures, or has power struggles over food, go to Bon Appétit daily routine to learn more.
  • Sleeping problems: if your child has difficulty  falling asleep, refuses to go to bed, or having nightmares or waking several times a night, go to Peaceful Zzzz daily routine to learn more.

If you are facing challenges with your child in any daily routine activity, go to the Daily Routines section to learn more about what are the skills required for every activity, the possible reasons for these challenges, and how Onesti can help you.

How Can ONESTI Help You

If you find that your child is showing any one or more of the above challenging behaviors, it is advised that you fill ONESTI’s behavior challenges checklist and speak to our behavior specialists to identify your child’s problem behaviors and determine the possible functions these behaviors serve.

To know more about how to deal with challenging behaviors using evidence-based strategies, read about ONESTI’s Brave To Behave program. Our behavior specialists will work on coaching the child’s caregivers, family, teachers, or anyone involved in the child’s daily life, and empower them with the best techniques to be applied throughout daily routines, everytime and everywhere, challenging behaviors occur.